Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
Jessica Fern
Wow. What an amazing book. Jessica Fern grapples with many of the questions that come up again and again when you do poly, and more specifically nonhierarchical poly for a long time. People have attachment issues, people get triggered, and things can easily end up hurting everyone and blowing up.
Ferns strategies for avoiding, dealing with, and healing these issues are smart, well researched, and well explicated. So much so that I’d recommend this book to anyone polyamorous and even many monogamous folks who want to improve their relationships as well.
Ferns strategies for avoiding, dealing with, and healing these issues are smart, well researched, and well explicated. So much so that I’d recommend this book to anyone polyamorous and even many monogamous folks who want to improve their relationships as well.